Still trying to pass a 6mm stone

First off, I've read through a bunch of your stories, and those of you who pass stones on a regular basis deserve to be knighted…

Almost two weeks ago I jolted awake in bed at 3:30am with the worst pain in my right side. I got up to go to the bathroom, and the second I was on my feet I dropped to the floor and screamed like someone had stabbed me. Anyway, I went to the ER and it turned out I have a 6mm stone, so they sent me home to pass it and set up a urologist appt for July (soonest they had). They gave me flomax, a narcotic for the pain, and something for nausea.

Now here I am again at 3:30 in the morning in pain, because for the last 8-10 hours I've felt like I need to have a bowel movement but nothing comes. The pain hasn’t moved since the ER visit, and with the amount of water I've been drinking, honestly one would think you could move a mountain with it.

1) is the pain I’m having normal for a kidney stone? 2) any advice at all is welcome on getting this devil stone out of me (I've tried a massage gun and going for walks on top of upping my water, and I also have a heating pad)

I've had 3 stones before but NOTHING like this. The first 2 I had some pain and they passed, and with the other I felt nothing until I went to the bathroom and heard that infamous “clink” in the bowl. So even though kidney stones aren't new to me, this pain is.

Thanks in advance for any advice